Back To School: The Odds

When youngest daughter turned 3-years old and was diagnosed with type 1 diabetes (t1d),  there were no other children in her preschool with t1d.  (There was one kind secretary with an adult t1d daughter but that is an entirely different story.  I still can't help but smile when I think of her wise ways of teaching me how to start this journey!)

The following year, at age four (fall birthday), our youngest daughter started kindergarten at our local public elementary and yet, still no other kids living with t1d. 

By her first grade, I was wondering if we would always be the 'only family'... and while part of me hoped so - since no child should ever live with t1d - a part of me wanted her to have a friend to share and connect with.

In the ironic way that often happens in real life, our oldest daughter was then diagnosed.  Which meant that we had a 'friend' for our youngest.  You can imagine the mixed bag of emotions that was presented to all of us on that fateful day in December.   If you want to read more you can click HERE.

However, our family had the only two children with t1d in the school.  Which once again, you can imagine the mixed message there... surely, our family was doing something to cause this problem in both of our children.  Looking back, I think that period marked the time that I really decided to advocate for a cure and to dispel the nonsense that the general public thought about how type 1 diabetes was caused.  IT IS NOT FROM FEEDING MY BABIES SUGAR, PEOPLE!!!!!

Another year more and another child - for the first time outside of our family- was diagnosed.  I remember crying the day the news came in and surprisingly feeling every bit as sad as hearing of our own children being diagnosed.  I also remember my youngest daughter excitedly wanting to meet him and wondering if he needed her help.  Although, my oldest daughter had moved on to middle school, it was she that came back to her old elementary school to talk to his class about type 1 diabetes - bringing a flurry of excitement and coolness to the younger kids, whom many wished for their own insulin pump, just like hers.

Fast forward to today... our youngest is starting that same middle school that her sister was at just two years ago.  The secretaries told me that there are six kids enrolled at the school that are diagnosed with t1d.

Our oldest daughter is entering junior high and from our initial 504 meeting, the assistant principal shared that there are six kids dx with t1d as well. 

I know the odds are that someone would have been diagnosed.  It is inevitable.  We haven't found our cure - YET. 

However, in our small town, in just these two schools, we went from 1 to 12.  Those are not my kind of odds. 

We need a cure.



And if you want to donate to help us reach that cure, please consider purchasing a Naturally Sweet Sisters t-shirt.  The sale will close on September 1, 2013, so this is the last chance to own an original shirt.  $3.00 of every shirt will go directly to JDRF.  CLICK HERE TO ORDER

Or feel free to donate directly to JDRF by helping our Walk to Cure Type 1 Diabetes under Team Naturally Sweet Sisters.  CLICK HERE TO DONATE

Thank you!

Back to School: Binders That Are Cute and Functional

Super cute binders found by googling Free Binder Templates

My oldest is heading into seventh grade. 

Wow.  Writing that still gives me pause... when on earth did that sweet little baby become such a beautiful young lady?

Sigh.  It just happens.  If you are a parent of a toddler or grade-schooler, watch and see.  The change happens in a blink.

This year, oldest daughter changes classes seven different times.  In our school, that allows for a variety of core subjects, a few electives and PE throughout the year.  Since I am new to parenting this kind of junior high student, one of my fellow mom friends advised me on the 'Binder System' which our school tends to use.

What the Binder System means is that each subject requires one binder.  Within the binder is a series of tabs for organization of class work, a calendar for homework and one pencil pouch. 

Check out that binder pencil pouch.. see the roll of glucose tabs? 

The tabs are fairly self explanatory, but the calendar offers a dual purpose.  Not only will our student write in things like homework or projects due, but she will also record blood sugars on exam days.  That way, if she bombs her test, we (the teacher, oldest daughter and the Naturally Sweet Parents) can refer back and see if she is entitled to a re-test.  It's a great solution for a difficult situation, especially since many of the tests are now done completely on-line and often are totally paperless, with only a grade appearing on the report card.

The other interesting item in the Binder System is that each binder contains a pencil pouch.  This is designed with the purpose of never needing to have a student arrive at class without a pencil.  The pencil pouch will hold extras of pencils, erasers, calculators, sticky notes or even hand-sanitizer.  Taking the use of the pencil pouch one step further, each one will also house a roll of glucose tabs for emergency lows.  Talk about convenient!  Our oldest daughter will have everything she needs for any situation that arises.  It makes all of us feel much more comfortable with the idea of her walking around a very large school with only a few minutes in-between classes. 

Now, you may not feel that this system is right for you and that is OK too.  I shared it with some of my other type 1 diabetes friends and they felt very strongly that the best way for their children to attend upper grades is through the use of a Trapper Keeper or large zip folder.  One of my dear friends said that it worked so well, her son is planning on taking it with him right through college. 

Whatever system you intend to use, it is great to think of ways to incorporate type 1 diabetes care that are seamless for both you and your children.  I listened very carefully to my oldest daughter when she said that she would feel uncomfortable eating a snack while everyone else is watching.  For her (and at this point of time), she asked for 'smaller sized snacks' that she could discreetly eat in the classroom.   She also asked that except for PE, she wanted no 'low boxes' in her classrooms.  She said she would feel awkward having to walk through the class to get a snack.  In PE, she felt comfortable as she could keep a small box in her gym locker and discreetly eat what she needed. 

Since I was once a seventh grader, I completely understood.  This is the age of awkwardness and of needing to fit in.  So absolutely!  My goal as a parent is to make type 1 diabetes a part of her life that she embraces and not something that she begins to despise.  Together, we choose to start off the year with the roll of glucose tabs and she also agreed to carry (and to eat if necessary) No Gii D'Lite Bars by Elizabeth Hasselbeck.  I am not endorsing these but they sure are delicious and what is nice, is the small size.   Oldest daughter can eat one in two bites and still, get 12 carbohydrates and 8 grams of protein.  That should be enough to bring her blood sugar back up and keep it there for several hours. 

I will be posting more in the days to come on how we manage type 1 diabetes and back to school, so keep checking back.   If you are already back to school, I hope this gives you some more ideas for modifying what you are currently using.  From one t1d parent to another... it sure does take a village!

Back to School : Naturally Sweet Sisters Defense Strategy for Lunchroom Workers

In a recent conversation with a newly diagnosed type 1 diabetes mom, she asked me how her shy daughter should try to handle the sometimes, over zealous, cafeteria monitors.  She shared a story in which, her daughter feeling intimidated over needing a few minutes extra in the cafeteria, was uncomfortable staying, left and felt "low".  The mom further explained that the workers were not understanding of why her daughter should be allowed 'special treatment'.  The daughter was too shy to explain and the mom was forced to come back to the cafeteria and stay with her daughter.

Sigh.

Now is it just me or does this type of situation just break your heart?

As a mom of a very shy kiddo until about the end of second grade, I went through many similar situations.  We even had one unfortunate issue with a cafeteria parent taking a leftover wrapper away from my daughter so that the worker could figure out where to buy the food that I had packed.  As a strict rule during that time, we had been very cautious about explaining to our daughter that no wrappers were to be thrown away until her aide had been to the cafeteria to count up her carbs.  Our daughter understood this rule but felt powerless in stopping the cafeteria parent and instead of speaking up, placed her head down on the table and cried until the aide found her several minutes later.  

That very sad story resulted in a hasty meeting with the principal and the creation of this little laminated card that went into her lunch box for the rest of the year.  In fact, while we have never had that situation again, our daughter has requested to continue the lunch card just so that she feel less worried about the possibility of it happening.

Sigh. 

Even typing this out, I still feel my chest tighten and that was from YEARS AGO!

The card is on a cute scrapbook card stock and the words are very simple.  You can choose to add a picture of your child or not.  You can also create another version to be placed in the coat pocket for recess workers or for bus drivers.  Just tailor the words to suit the situation. 

And hopefully, it will NEVER be needed. 

Come back tomorrow for even more Back to School ideas.  See you then!

Hello! I have type 1 diabetes and need to match my

food intake to my insulin dosage.  That means that I

must save my containers, leftovers and empty

beverages.  I may also need a few extra minutes in

the cafeteria to eat my food.  If you need further

information, please see Mrs. XXX or Mrs.

XXX.   Thank you for your understanding.